Iâm so pleased to be part of Angela Yarberâs âQueering The American Dreamâ book tour. Families come in all shapes and sizes as the memoir/travelogue, âQueering The AmericanDreamâ by  Rev Angela Yarber,  shows.  Travelling the length and breadth of the USA in a camper named Freya , the queer clergywoman, her wife and child, make up a family unit that  defies the normal American definition of a family unit.  Before I introduce Angela to the blog, hereâs a mini summary of her book:
BOOK SUMMARY
Beginning the day the Supreme Court ruled her marriage legal, Angela Yarberâs queer little family traversed the American landscape for two years in a camper named Freya, following in the footsteps of revolutionary women from history and myth. Amid her wanderings, this queer clergywoman grapples with the loss of faith, addiction, death, parenting, and what it means to reimagine the so-called dream promised to so many. With unapologetic grief, humor, and radical imagination, she creates a new dream, not just for herself, but for all marginalized people living in America.
Publisher: Parson’s Porch
ISBN-10: 195558141X
ISBN-13: 978-1955581417
Print Length: 188 pages
Purchase a copy of the book on Amazon, Barnes & Noble, and Bookshop.org. You can also add it to your list on Goodreads.
INTERVIEW
Hi Angela and welcome to the blog! 
Hi, Iâm Rev. Dr. Angela Yarber, but most people call my Dr. Ang. Iâm an award-winning author of 8 books and founder of Tehom Center Publishing, a press publishing feminist and queer authors, with a commitment to elevate BIPOC writers. With a Ph.D. in Art and Religion, Iâve been a professor of womenâs, gender, and sexuality studies for nearly two decades.
More than a formal bio or accolades, Iâm a queer feminist mama of two foster kiddos with disabilities who my wife and I adopted. In addition to writing and publishing, Iâm a working artist and all my work is grounded in teaching about revolutionary women. Iâm an enneagram 1, INTJ, Leo sun and Cancer moon who loves the magical place between creativity and organization.
What inspired you to write Queering The American Dream?
I was inspired to write my book because Iâm sick of seeing so many marginalized people bound to the so-called dreams that have been systematically designed to disenfranchise us. Heteronormativity. White supremacy. The 9-to-5 rat race. Broken education, medical, and criminal justice systems. Weâve been told to pull ourselves up by our bootstraps by a country that has stolen our boots. And thatâs not ok.
Or, to quote my queer clergywomen coven, âHoney, itâs not you. Itâs the system.â
I wrote and published this book so that readers can see examples of what it means to live and dream differently. Because, in the words of Toni Morrison, the only life âyou can have is the one you can imagine.â My inspiration is an exercise is radical imagination, of dreaming what life and work and vocation and family could look like if we heed the wisdom of queer women of color who have been dreaming creative, alternative, dismantling dreams from the jump. It wasnât easy, but my wife and I tried to follow this queer, intersectional wisdom.
Your book follows your travels across the USA in a camper named Freya, with your little family consisting of yourself, your wife and your child. I have a campervan too so I can appreciate the nomadic dream. Where did you feel most comfortable and accepted as a family unit? In your opinion, why do you think some people you encountered didnât appreciate that families come in all shapes and sizes?
Well, the day we left on our journey was literally the day the Supreme Court ruled our marriage legal, so roughly half the country still didnât believe our family deserved equal treatment under the law. And this discrimination still exists in myriad other ways, often fueled by exclusive religion and bully pulpits.
Likely the place where we felt most accepted was Hawaiâi Island, though there remain pockets of exclusion there, as well.
What or who inspired you to become a clergywoman? 
Interestingly, many of the same revolutionary women whose stories fill my book also inspired my initial call to ministry. Because my beliefs have shifted over the 20 years since I became a clergywoman, I now say that I hold my ordination with an open hand, no longer serving or practicing within my faith tradition.
Itâs oddly one of the same quotes that inspired my travels that also inspires my calling. Passionate nomad, Freya Stark, claims, âItâs the beckoning that counts, not the clicking latch behind you.â Whether itâs the call to activism, the call to write, the call travel, or the call to ministry, the power of the call canât be denied.
 âQueering The American Dream â is more than a memoir/travelogue – you introduced snippets of the inspirational power of  Frida Kahlo and Pauli Murray too as you wove your way across the US – did you find recollecting your experiences harder or easier to write down than you expected?
Probably easier. Knowing that I rest on the shoulders of so many revolutionary womenâfrom Murray and Kahlo to Audre Lorde, Jarena Lee, Gloria AnzaldĂșa, and so many othersâemboldened me to write, not simply for myself, but on behalf of others.
Making courageous changes to oneâs life path is not easy to do – what do you feel prevents a lot of people from being brave and making that leap? 
That same âclicking latchâ that Freya Stark spoke of earlier. The clicking latch of adulthood, propriety, societal expectations, parenthood, and career can sometimes stifle bravery and creativity. Simultaneously, many peopleâincluding myself in many instancesâlack the privilege and resources to make such a leap. My white privilege and higher education, for example, made taking the leap much easier. At the same time, my queerness and low socio-economic background made it all the harder. Many people have the bravery, but lack the resources. I hope that my book helps readers see that resilience, creativity, and integrity can bolster courage to step into the unknown.
Can you tell us a bit more about your time on Hawaii – what were your highlights about living in Hawaii and the downside? 
Living in Hawaiâi is complicated. For me, it is paradise defined and I am tremendously grateful to have called Hawaiâi Island home for five years and to have adopted my daughter through the foster care system there. The beauty of the islandâits history, culture, myth, and geographyâwas both liberatory and salvific for me during some very difficult times.
Simultaneously, my wife and I discerned we could no longer live in the islands for two primary reasons. The first was the lack of infrastructure in supporting our childrenâs disabilities and medical care. The second, and more overarching, was that as haoli, or white people, we realized that, no matter our intentions or support of Hawaiian sovereignty, our presence on the island as non-kanaka landowners was contributing to colonization. We now support Hawaiian sovereignty and the aloha aina movement from afar by elevating the work of kanaka maoli. 
Growing up, what were your initial career aspirations?  
As a child, I wanted to be a dancer. And I retired from a career in professional dance at 30.
Is your book, Queering The American Dream, available to purchase worldwide?
Yes!
Are you a bookworm?  If so, do you prefer âactualâ books or kindle?  What genre(s) do you enjoy reading? 
I think Iâd call myself a bookworm. I do run a publishing company, Tehom Center Publishing, a press publishing feminist and queer authors, with a commitment to elevate BIPOC readers, so reading is kinda my job! 
As an academic, a lot of my reading is research based in gender studies, queer theory, and spirituality. And for fun, I really love travel memoir. I like an actual book in hand.
Personal now – what outfits and shoes would you normally be found wearing?
Iâm very casual. At home, Iâm usually in a sarong or gym clothes. Out and about, I usually wear shorts and a t-shirt or a sundress. Slippahs (flip flops) or running shoes.
Do you have any favourite shops or online sites? 
Iâm not really into shopping, but I try to support the Syracuse Cultural Worker.
What’s next on your clothes/shoe wish list?
I used to be a major âshoe slut,â at one point owning 3 pairs of pink stilettos alone, but when we traveled full-time and âwent tiny,â I narrowed my shoes down to 8 pairs total. All practical.
Though I rarely wear heels any more, I have been dreaming about the perfect pair of rainbow heels to wear throughout my book tour.
Boots or Shoes? 
I really prefer slippahs, but if I had to choose between boots and shoes, Iâd say my vegan leather Frida Kahlo combat boots are my decision.
Links you would like to share e.g. website/facebook/twitter etc 
Purchase book: https://tinyurl.com/kkv5kvk9
My website: www.angelayarber.org
Publishing Company website: www.tehomcenter.org
Get connected to Book Tour: www.tehomcenter.org/booktour
BOOK DATES
Fabulous to chat to you, Angela! Thanks for inviting me onto your book tour and for the copy of your book to review.
Linda x
All photographs have been published with the kind permission of Rev Angela Yarber
	
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